How to stop shouting at your kids
By Haleh Banani, M.A.
Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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I don’t know why I shout so much. I feel like my kids don’t respect me or care about what I’m saying. I’m so frustrated. My kids are 14 and 11.
Sallaam alaykum
I want to be the best version of my self
Because when I yell my kids are not listening
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Something I have to work on, I tried not to shout but sometimes it’s the only way to get a reaction
Mehzabeen Hosany Nundloll exactly same.
Ma Sha Allah
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Frustration due to time wasting, especially for a working mum
Stress at work is a big reason
Assalam alaikum sister Haleh. Masha Allah very well explained. Jazak allahu khairan.
When I loose my temper or frustrated then that goes over to our children. Once we realize then we set back and regret & avoid doing so later and feel bad for our kids as how they are facing these anger, yelling or bad words at that moment. And it does affect the child.
Assalaamoe alaykum waragmatullahi wabarakatu from Cape Town. South Africa. Thank you
Is it too let for me to change because my kids are 12,11,3 and 9 I really want to change
MashaAllah you are really good at this
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Shehnaz Shumaila
Consistency also
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It’s not effective and I do it to my kids when I get frustrated and feel they’re not listening. I’m working on changing
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Noor in your face MashAllah
When kids dont listen after calling them out in a slow voice, i tend to yell at them n suddenly they hear everything. I get really worked up and dont like that feeling at all.
Shabnam Mazhar Keval u are such a bully
Assalamualaikum , Sister Haleh 🙂
My son when I tell him 3times he doesn’t listen I have to scream for him to do what I asks even my daughter asking nicely didn’t work then I had to scream and immediately they do it but I hate yell
Adz Mahomed true same my kids
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Whenever I was yelled at as a child I felt like I didn’t hear or understand anything that was being said to me. I don’t blame my parents, I know sometimes it’s hard convey a message to your children or to make them understand the importance of something. Usually we are being emotional and therefore we react. I feel guilty when I scream at my children and feel regretful because I know it’s not the right way to approach a situation and because I would like to have control of my emotions to project the right kind of response. May Allah make help us find the best and most efficient way to speak to our children, ameen.
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Zalilah Ismail
Are these ever recorded? Because that would be really great
Maa Shaa Allah.
I an guilty of it , good advices
Navid Panjshiri
You are perfect
Everything my kids do annoys me and makes me so angry to the point that even when they joke I get mad at them
Replay… I do yell a lot at my kids that it feels like im going crazy. My parents never screamed at me but I scream at my kids and I feel so bad I think I do it bcos I’m so frustrated and it makes me so sad to treat them this way
stress
Yes I yelled a lot . And my kids started to loose their confidence
It’s very informative
Atif Musheer
Laura Duffney
I hated how my parents yelled and I don’t want to become that oerson
And deactivating it
Learning what my triggers are
My parents yelled I hated it I used to freeze and go blank
Annie Tampipi – Uddin
Assalamualaikum
Sometimes nothing else works and its an emergency
Saba Farooq haha.. more often than not
Jazakallah khair for this information dear really need that
Learning to control my emotions helps me. It’s not always easy and I fluctuate, but the lessons really help me and remind me of how to get back on track
MashaAllah sister
Asalamu alikum
Asalamualikum Good afternoon to u from The Gambia west Africa
Saaiqa Hawa
Aslm i shout at them cos they dont listen i must speak millon times how can i be better mother
Nasheeta Ebrahim ws. Same with my son,gosh he drives me nuts…..I donno whether he does things to provoke me or just that he forgets
Its like takes the last nerve out on u
Please I need some advice, I feel extremely guilty each time I scold her.
I feel like I’m going crazy when they don’t listen. And when they don’t listen I tend to shout